What goes around, comes around

If I am your good friend I will fight to the death for you.  I can be mean, conniving, and a down right bitch!  But you know as your friend I've got your back, and will do whatever I can to make sure you are taken care  of and no one hurts my friends, family, or me.  You mess with them, you mess with me.  I think a lot of weaker ppl are drawn to me, weak sounds mean, but I mean ppl who aren't able to stand up for themselves.  They want me to go to bat for them and do what they can't.  And I've been told that they wish they could be more like me, and it's what they love about me.  Trust me it's not always easy to be so bluntly honest and downright mean.  I don't keep friends very easily bc not everyone can handle my honesty.

I can be a very understanding, forgiving person...except when I'm deceived or lied to by friends.  I would rather you be honest with me, tell me something I don't want to hear, like you're cheating on your husband, than to hide it and lie to me about it.  Me!  The person whom you've sucked the life out of to catch your husband cheating and get him in trouble with his NCO.  It makes me look like a fool, and I don't appreciate it one bit!  Hence why you're outta my life FOREVER.

So anyway, back to my point...Why are these ppl surprised when I'm just as mean, conniving, and bitchy towards them after they've done me wrong?  They've wasted a lot of my time, and betrayed me.  Why wouldn't I stand up for myself and give them a dose of the medicine they loved so much when they were dispensing it themselves on other ppl?!  Seriously what part of them thought they could lie and 1) wouldn't get caught (I'm definitely not dumb, nor blind) and 2) i would just stand back and let it happen without a word, or fight!  They sure loved when I was good at catching their husband lying and cheating, and helped him pay for his actions....what goes around, comes around. 

I'm not saying ppl should be scared of me, I'm not that intimidating, or scary.  But I am saying I am who I am no matter what, and I won't change that.  This has happened more than once to me, and I just don't get why ppl are so shocked when they do me wrong and I fight back.  I'm just doing what you loved so much about me that kept me in your circle of friends in the first place.

My other point is: DON'T use me as your fighting tool bc you're too weak to do it yourself, DON'T use me for your financial support bc you can't be an adult and spend money wisely, DON'T use me as a babysitter bc you can't handle the kids you made a conscience decision to have, DON'T use me as an alibi while you are screwing other men, esp without my knowledge of what is going on, DON'T lie to me, and DON'T blame me because your husband isn't honest and open with you, but mine is with me!  and IF you do any, or ALL of these things DON'T be surprised when I don't take it lying down and just revert back to my corner.  AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN!

Oh and a lil advice from me to you; if you don't want the whole world to know that you are screwing another soldier while still living with your husband, - hence getting the other soldier in trouble for sleeping with a married woman - don't post his name all over your wall on facebook, and make sure your wall is private to everyone but friends.